Bro SBMSBM wrote:Br Humanbeing
I am really shocked and surprised with your continued harsh postings. This young man had a very good family and may be he could not bear the shame this would have brought. It is easy to be Monday Morning Quarterbacking but one has to understand that there is extreme pressure on School and College Students in India as expectation are from them to earn high money,
It is easy for you and me to say that he should have look for alternate as we both live out side India.
Your posting to only pray for his parents are very insensitive. As I and others have posted that this young man also needs our prayers that Allaha may forgive his sins and wrong decision, Yes his family is suffering but imagine what this young man might have gone thru when he hung himself, it is not a QUICK DEATH and may have gone thru a torturous death, No one know how long did it take to end his life
I pray to Allaha that this person's soul rests in peace and May Allaha forgive him for his shortcomings while give strength to his family for this great loss,
It is the survivors who needs prayers and support who this gentleman left in utter sadness and frustration. The young lad is no more, Allah will take care of him. I sound rude or harsh for his stand, but giving sympathy to him is like forgiving the act of suicide. In my personal opinion suicide is murder of self and more than that it is pain and anguish that it brings to parents and loved one. They live blaming themselves for not open enough to counsel, not caring enough etc etc. Life can get hard, expectations can get really crazy, pressure to live, prove or sustain can get overwhelming. Somehow suiciders think that by ending themselves they can be absolved of their responsibilities or obligations and earn some kind of respect, sympathy, achievement. In fact they complicate the matter more for those who survived. I have no personal grudge against this young man, I am expressing my views on the act of suicide. I discourage it by condemning it. In my little ways I wish to create an awareness that suicide is a lamest and useless thing to do, it is not cool, it is not forgiving, it is not a solution, it is not a therapy, it is not a way out. My views don’t matter to the dead, it may matter to those who may be going through such feeling of helplessness. I’d rather reach out to the survivors and comfort them, they were not wrong anywhere, neither sit blaming others to vent out their frustrations.
Please don’t call me inhumane or insensitive. I am just expressing a view point from another perspective.