anajmi wrote:If you look at the ithna asharis, they probably believe in something called "hatum". This is a practice where women can do what you are looking for. They might also tell you that Hazrat Ali allowed it. Islam allows no such practice and unless you are a greek god, or Draupadi, I don't think any other religion allows this either.
hatum?
now thats a new word in my dictionary but i dont deny if there some thing like that i will soon get back to you with more information if there is some thing like that..
can u provide more information or some link about this hatum thing?