Dawoodi Bohra Forum

way2go wrote:

humanbeing wrote:This lady is going to be in trouble for many reasons. If she is SMS follower : Hugged a gair-mehram mard against the loud reprimands from SMS. How many times he has shouted in his bayaan, “aa-su-thai-jaaye-gunah-thai-jaaye-zina-thai-jaaye” .

On a fair note, considering the conservative outlook of abde priesthood, hugging Big B is not acceptable. On a personal note as well general bohras, they give a dam to such farmaans ! yet ardent followers of the abde dai ! Had she studies at jamea-tus-saifiyah she would have known her limits and not hugged Big B. SMS is right to not send women for secular education !

She seems to be not listening to SMS; Invest money in studying for brighter future ?? Roti Making, Rida Sewing, Jaman Pakaoing requires investment of time and not money. She should “ekhtiaar-ghar-no-kono” Father’s loan ? is it from Qardan Hasana ? or Bank Loan ? If it is Bank Loan then SMS is going to be very upset. After all the shoutings, yet abdes don’t get it ! “Riba-haraam-che”

Also, what was the need to take the bank loan, when shafeek maula has provision of qardan hasana ! She is so thankless ! she did not thank SMS for the beshumaar ehsaan, karam and barakaat that SMS bestowed upon her due to which she has won the prize ! how can she take knowledge from newspaper and news channel ( duniya-ni-garam-hawaao) ! instead of the ultimate owner of the knowledge (Ilm-na-dariya) SMS . In order to achieve this state, she needs to give maafi-nama & Jadeed misaak to SMS for her transgressions; not thanking his beshumaar ehsaan and karam, hugging Big B, Investing in Further studies, paying bank loan.

Maafi Nama must be accompanied with ; najwa-tus-shukr, Mafi-Kaffarat, Amil’s salaam and Khumus of the prize money and misaaq laagat.

humanbeing bhai.....the lady in question who zingerbhai has mentioned about and who won the 1 crore is not a Bohra so the question of her hugging Amitabh Bachchan doesn't count...my earlier post talked of a riddah clad lady hugging Amitabh...a ghair mehramdar....and does it really matter how 'huge' (in zingerbhai's words) Mr Bachchan is??? A ghair mehramdar is a ghair mehramdar

SRK wrote:

zinger wrote:
you sound suspiciously like someone else. im wondering if its gonna turn out to be what i think it is

Salam

it doesn't matter what is your suspicion brother, but please next time do not compare a dignified muslimah with your family members, and dont say "any woman" will hug a super star, because there are still true muslims left in world who knows what Quran teaches.

humanbeing wrote:My sincere apology for jumping the gun and writing the post on wrong context ... I request admin to pull down my post.

Inconvenience regretted.

Nafisa wrote:At least 40 slap as a Shariah Tazir Punishment should be for Be Ghairat woman who hugged Na Mehram, whosoever he is.
What a Dai or any other leader can do while entire society become Be Sharam, Be Ghairat and Be Haya
Rasulullah(SAWA) says:
While you have left Haya then do whatever you wish

zinger wrote:And my point of this post was that while on one hand we keep harping on how Sunnis are on the true path and Dawoodi Bohras are not, how come when a Sunni Muslim woman does something it is ignored but when a Dawoodi Bohra woman does it, it becomes a sin of Adultery????

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way2go wrote:@ zingerbhai,


Zingerbhai....Please do not get me wrong....I did not mean that it was ok for a non Dawoodi Bohra to hug a ghair mehramdar.....I meant to only correct humanbeing bhai on his explanations by making him realise that the lady in question was a non Bohra and that is why she did not count when it came to his long post where Bohra doctrines were concerned.
And yes... I state that no self respecting muslim lady should go about hugging a ghair mehramdar whoever may it be ( in stature or otherwise) because that is what our Rasool (PBUH) has ordained.

ghulam muhammed wrote:

zinger wrote:And my point of this post was that while on one hand we keep harping on how Sunnis are on the true path and Dawoodi Bohras are not, how come when a Sunni Muslim woman does something it is ignored but when a Dawoodi Bohra woman does it, it becomes a sin of Adultery????

Bro zinger,

It seems you have completely missed the moot point............ It becomes objectionable when a dawoodi bohra woman hugs AB because these are Muffy's views who 24x7 harps on roti making, rida sewing etc for women and who also does not want bohra women to work as according to him the workplace is the devils backyard. So its in this context that members are raising their voice !

saminaben wrote:

Nafisa wrote:At least 40 slap as a Shariah Tazir Punishment should be for Be Ghairat woman who hugged Na Mehram, whosoever he is.
What a Dai or any other leader can do while entire society become Be Sharam, Be Ghairat and Be Haya
Rasulullah(SAWA) says:
While you have left Haya then do whatever you wish

Nafisaben, as per your post Johara BS wife of SMS deserve how many slaps - for accepting men kissing her hands and feet?

qutub_mamajiwala wrote:all respected memebers,
zinger, GM, humanbeing, nafisaben, saminaben.
come on guys, stop persecuting that innocent lady, it was just a stage show.
be little broad minded,
she did not hug in a secret room
and all r going like she would do zina with AB
come on this is not progressive at all.
why r u making such an issue of small thing.
there are many serious issues to content with.
in our family and social circles and wedding and outing
and even social and family function, ladies do get touched with non mehramdaar
even in school and college , they do get touched if not hugged.
this is what wahabi and saudi arabia is doing and we blame them for oppressing woman.
chill guys
my full support for that lady
hope to end this trivial discussion

qutub_mamajiwala wrote:all respected memebers,
zinger, GM, humanbeing, nafisaben, saminaben.
come on guys, stop persecuting that innocent lady, it was just a stage show.
be little broad minded,
she did not hug in a secret room
and all r going like she would do zina with AB
come on this is not progressive at all.
why r u making such an issue of small thing.
there are many serious issues to content with.
in our family and social circles and wedding and outing
and even social and family function, ladies do get touched with non mehramdaar
even in school and college , they do get touched if not hugged.
this is what wahabi and saudi arabia is doing and we blame them for oppressing woman.
chill guys
my full support for that lady
hope to end this trivial discussion