Moula Cares

The one and only free public forum for Bohras. The focus of this forum is the reform movement, the Dawoodi Bohra faith and, of course, the corrupt priesthood. But the discussion is in no way restricted to the Bohras alone.
anajmi
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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Wed Mar 27, 2013 7:31 pm

If it's landed us here, same appeals could get us out.
Digging a deeper hole won't get you out, unless you are digging to get to China.
An atheist becomes what he is through human artifacts. Only the divine can show him the way.
Correct. Go back to the divine artifact.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Wed Mar 27, 2013 7:32 pm

I'm an atheist. Show me the way.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Wed Mar 27, 2013 7:44 pm

You should start by reading the Quran. Just read the translation, if you do not understand Arabic. Do not read any commentary unless absolutely necessary. And even before you do that, try to figure out what is the "way" that you are looking for. Is atheism not fulfilling enough? What is missing?

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Wed Mar 27, 2013 7:47 pm

Look buddy, why should I read the Quraan over any other religious book?
I'll give it a read, sure: how will it make me believe? I think it's all fraudulent. Can you prove otherwise?
Show me there's a God. I'm sure he's showed his face at some point in this modern time and age. I mean why else would others believe in him, right?

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Wed Mar 27, 2013 7:58 pm

I think it's all fraudulent.
You are not the first one to think that way and most certainly not the last one.

In the Quran, Allah says to his prophet Muhammad (saw) that guidance is in the hands of Allah only. The job of the prophet (saw) is just to deliver the message. He cannot make anyone believe in the message. So consider it this way, if you have been chosen to believe, then you will believe. If not, then you will keep debunking. As they say, for those who believe, no proof is necessary and for those who don't, no proof is possible.
Look buddy, why should I read the Quraan over any other religious book?
No reason. I suggest you read them all. If guidance is what you are seeking, you will find it. If it is a little bit of spotlight on this forum, then I will oblige. It might get painful though. :wink:

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Al Zulfiqar » Wed Mar 27, 2013 8:02 pm

admin,

we have had enough of these vacuous debates between grayson (who has admitted he has no intelligence or logic) and anajmi. can you please move them to 'the lighter side' and spare us this continuing nonsense on the reform forum?

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Wed Mar 27, 2013 8:03 pm

Read em'. Good reads. Don't see 'the way'. I don't know how reliable works from countless centuries are. Particularly the distortion of truth it may have faced for so long in the hands of human beings. That too and God existing still not being something tangible to me. Too bad the prophet never gave me the message (unless ofcourse it's you?). Even then. Nah... Not my cup of tea.
I'll take Dawkins agnostic approach. Seems most rational. No debunkings needed.

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Unread post by anajmi » Wed Mar 27, 2013 8:25 pm

Actually, I appreciate your honesty. This gives me more hope for the abdes, because most abdes are already believers in Allah and his book. The original way that I had suggested, which is to use the Quran for the guidance of the abdes and to free them from the clutches of the evil clergy, just became even more valid.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Wed Mar 27, 2013 8:36 pm

As an atheist, you've failed to convince me. Not even scratched at reason.
You are the weakest link. Goodbye.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Wed Mar 27, 2013 8:48 pm

It is ironical. My weakness is going to land you in hell. :wink:

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Wed Mar 27, 2013 8:52 pm

To you, I'd be going there not matter what. :D

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Unread post by anajmi » Wed Mar 27, 2013 9:09 pm

Not really. If you were to stop making excuses and blaming other people's weaknesses for your shortcomings, you might even make it to heaven.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Wed Mar 27, 2013 9:30 pm

Sigh, I don't know when this got so dirty but have had enough of the cat fight.
I have faults (and don't assume to think I'm right about all my thoughts), and am seeking to rectify them. I'm wishing to share this process using a method I find accessible to others. Attacking the Dawoodi Bohra faith shows me no iota of progress. Despite how wrong certain practices may be.

Your point of view, whether it's actually right or not, gets me thinking (which is much appreciated); but I've found it ineffective when I've tried using it in reason with others.

Call it excuses; this is my pragmatism.

Whether I make it to heaven in the end, I'll leave that to God. I'll try my best to understand what I can along the way (through the teachings of others mixed with independent reflection) and share that with those most dear. I don't see it as much of a dilemma but don't appreciate being damned by others for what I stand for.

God will judge me for my sins (and ignorance and misinterpretations and weaknesses and shortcomings): no one else.
I'm fine with that, and kindly end my arguments (on this thread :wink: ) here.

Thank you for the discussion.
It's been illuminating.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by as2153 » Thu Mar 28, 2013 12:09 am

Grayson, Its my hope that you will continue contributing on this forum. I'm more a casual reader than a contributor but I find your thoughts strongly aligned with my own. I too am in the fold and I too have my doubts about much of what happens in our community and the lack of transparency with finances and other issues. I also have the same limitations on what I can or am willing to say and do because of family obligations and I also find a few of the posters here to be sometimes on the offensive side about community members that are overwhelmingly a kind and good people. Some of these posted views (even when valid) can be so excessive that it would be difficult to be internalized by the moderates and doubters that are still within the fold. I agree with you on the need for verifiable facts rather than conjecture but as I pointed out, I find my own thoughts strongly aligned with your own.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by zinger » Thu Mar 28, 2013 7:31 am

as2153 wrote:Grayson, Its my hope that you will continue contributing on this forum. I'm more a casual reader than a contributor but I find your thoughts strongly aligned with my own. I too am in the fold and I too have my doubts about much of what happens in our community and the lack of transparency with finances and other issues. I also have the same limitations on what I can or am willing to say and do because of family obligations and I also find a few of the posters here to be sometimes on the offensive side about community members that are overwhelmingly a kind and good people. Some of these posted views (even when valid) can be so excessive that it would be difficult to be internalized by the moderates and doubters that are still within the fold. I agree with you on the need for verifiable facts rather than conjecture but as I pointed out, I find my own thoughts strongly aligned with your own.
me too

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Thu Mar 28, 2013 8:21 am

Your point of view, whether it's actually right or not, gets me thinking (which is much appreciated); but I've found it ineffective when I've tried using it in reason with others.
I got you thinking, but you were ineffective in using it with others. Do you know why? Because I believe in what I say.
I don't see it as much of a dilemma but don't appreciate being damned by others for what I stand for.
But it is ok to damn others for what they stand for? Didn't you call the religion that I believe in, fraudulent?
Whether I make it to heaven in the end, I'll leave that to God.
Have you figured out which God that is?

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Al Zulfiqar » Thu Mar 28, 2013 8:33 am

grayson,

stop thinking we are all utter fools here, like you!

here below are your own statements:

Re: Moula Cares
by Grayson on Wed Mar 27, 2013 11:32 pm
I'm an atheist. Show me the way.

Re: Moula Cares
by Grayson on Wed Mar 27, 2013 11:47 pm
Look buddy, why should I read the Quraan over any other religious book?
I'll give it a read, sure: how will it make me believe? I think it's all fraudulent. Can you prove otherwise?
Show me there's a God. I'm sure he's showed his face at some point in this modern time and age. I mean why else would others believe in him, right?

Re: Moula Cares
by Grayson on Thu Mar 28, 2013 12:03 am
..God existing still not being something tangible to me. Too bad the prophet never gave me the message (unless ofcourse it's you?). Even then. Nah... Not my cup of tea.
I'll take Dawkins agnostic approach. Seems most rational. No debunkings needed.

Re: Moula Cares
by Grayson on Thu Mar 28, 2013 12:36 am
As an atheist, you've failed to convince me. Not even scratched at reason.
..Goodbye

yes, you are free to read anything you like and the quran belongs to all of mankind, not me alone. but when you are a confirmed atheist, have already concluded that the quran is a fraudulent document and you mock the prophet and his message because he did not come personally to deliver it to you, then why this pretense and hypocrisy? take your rationalist approach and stuff your concerns for bohra reform where they belong.

not only are you a despicable liar but a time waster and someone who is playing politics on this forum.


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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:31 am

Al Zulfiqar,

Now you're just foaming aren't you?
I'm as atheist as you are (then again, it might be quite a bit).

Using cheap out of context tactics to slander someone? Talk about a low blow. Reread the entire conversation (which you won't) and you'll see why I brought up atheism in the first place. Don't tell others about their religiosity simply because you don't agree with what they say and can't successfully demonize them without resorting to highlighting words used argumentatively (that don't have to do with the my personally believed positions).

You wanna disagree? Do it respectfully. Don't pretend to know who I am, particularly not in such an unintelligent, dishonest and sneaky way. I asked you why you're selectively dishonest privately, you decided to openly respond while being further selectively dishonest.

Sometimes I wonder if you're not actually a kothari mole yourself. You sure sound like one. Looking forwards to your further abuse: it's the only way you seem to know how to respond.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:39 am

anajmi,

You're right. I don't share the same somewhat narrow convictions in my belief. Inshallah someday I shall. God help me help myself.

Lol, please brother. I said it's 'fraudulent' to make a point: why do you insist on painting me with an example I used to illustrate others point of views when I've clarified my personal position so tiresomely. I prefer damning no one: human's don't have that right.

The one God. We can atleast agree on tawheed, can't we?

I've exhausted my position enough and will contemplate your words too. I'm not ineffective yet, I still have much to learn and do. If there's one certainty I hold it's good intent; I don't see how that position is a 'failure' on my part. No matter how much you tell me it is.

Wassalaam.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:58 am

I said it's 'fraudulent' to make a point
And what point was that?
The one God. We can atleast agree on tawheed, can't we?
Tawheed is a concept of Islam given to us by the Quran and the prophet (saw). You have made your position clear (but you haven't) that the Quran is a fraudulent manuscript because the prophet (saw) didn't deliver it to you personally. But you said that only to make a point which was what again?

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Thu Mar 28, 2013 10:21 am

Lol brother, I was arguing as an "atheist" after you said only the divine can bring one back on haq. Roleplaying if you will. Without the costumes. :wink:

You proceeded to counter my fraudulent claim in the conversation by quoting the Quran. As if to show irrefutable proof that God mentions you're not a believer because you haven't been chosen, but now that you have the knowledge, become a believer (of your narrow views) and cleanse your sins. Cause that's precisely what converts nonbelievers, isn't it? (any atheist willing to shed light on how effective this argument is, please do)

Personally I don't share that belief (as every one of my posts aside from my roleplaying ones as an "atheist" shows). I can't quite comprehend what jumped you to make such a conclusion in the context of our conversation. You're intentionally distorting it.

Call me an 'atheist' all you want. It was merely an arguement to show why you forcing your beliefs don't work.

God knows my true beliefs. And I've said it often here too. I'm not going to reply to you any further if it means rewriting things I already said.

Salaams.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Thu Mar 28, 2013 10:53 am

When you failed arguing your point as a believer, you pretended to be an atheist. When you failed arguing your point as an atheist you pretended to be a believer. I sincerely hope you do not respond anymore as I expect you to start pretending to be God himself now!!

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Thu Mar 28, 2013 10:57 am

Cause that's precisely what converts nonbelievers, isn't it?
The goal here is not to convert nonbelievers. The goal was to discuss the misdeeds of the kothar and their misuse of the Quran. Your words are just as confused as your thoughts are!!

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Thu Mar 28, 2013 11:03 am

anajmi wrote:When you failed arguing your point as a believer, you pretended to be an atheist. When you failed arguing your point as an atheist you pretended to be a believer. I sincerely hope you do not respond anymore as I expect you to start pretending to be God himself now!!
I showed why you're attempt to convince (based on your staunch views) is ineffective in convincing.
anajmi wrote:The goal here is not to convert nonbelievers. The goal was to discuss the misdeeds of the kothar and their misuse of the Quran. Your words are just as confused as your thoughts are!!
Changing goalposts are we? My point's on how to tackle the situation. I'm on that topic. You're losing track.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Thu Mar 28, 2013 11:14 am

My point's on how to tackle the situation.
Tackle the situation by pretending to be something you are not? And then pretending some more?
I showed why you're attempt to convince (based on your staunch views) is ineffective in convincing.
My attempt to convince doesn't take into consideration split multiple personalities. Even so, I was able to convince you to shed your pretense of being an atheist in only 3 posts. :wink:

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Thu Mar 28, 2013 11:19 am

Your straw man speaks for itself.
Funny considering they're not supposed to.
I'm done here.
Peace be with you.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by anajmi » Thu Mar 28, 2013 11:31 am

Thanks and Peace be with you too.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Humsafar » Thu Mar 28, 2013 12:00 pm

I was just waiting for you two to call it quits, so that we can get back to topi, namely Grayson's dire need for proof without which he presumably feels handicapped to persuade others to question the clergy.
Grayson wrote:
This isn’t the 70s or 80s (thank God) where information solely comes from the top; truth is more transparent than ever.
What do you mean information comes form top. These were common people who deposed to the commissions. What they said were facts (proofs) then as they are now. In fact things have only become worse.
Grayson wrote:My words target the fence sitters (and those unafraid of honesty), to start them going a little. People need to talk about these issues (and silence/dumbstrike) the fanatics to a point where they question themselves internally. In a way, it’s what’s happened to me.
It has happened to you. You have started questioning yourself internally without the availability of proofs. Why can't the same thing happen to them?
Grayson wrote:All these little things such as incriminating the top brass, is crucial as the system as a whole is woven together. You see the human flaws and hypocrisy of the mid-level bhaisahebs taking your moola, and your mumbles turn to actual voices. Let’s not pretend they’re separable from the core issues; things like this matter. I(/we) can challenge accountability based on known specific events.
These scandalous allegation are important inasmuch as they lend credence to reformists' criticism of the Kothar's evil and corrupt ways. However, the Nafisa Ali affair is not crucial to proving the venality of the Kothar.
Grayson wrote:An “abde” such as myself on my own? Who the hell am I to challenge the machinations of Kothar without hard proof or support? I’ll be castrated, sidelined and bitter like everyone else (worse, it'll affect my family). Remaining silent and complaining about issues amongst themselves and on forums.
You mean to say that you need the proof of the ownership of the Ambassador Hotel to challenge the machinations of the Kothar?
Grayson wrote:We have no excuses; but at this point, with a look towards gradual change, I don’t think there’s any proof that’s unneeded. Not from my point of view.
More than the proofs what you and the people you are trying to influence NEED is knowledge. Knowledge of the Quran, it's basic message, knowledge of Ismaili/Fatimid history. Without understanding the past, without understanding our history and faith you cannot know how far the clergy has strayed. That knowledge is available here and elsewhere. Therefore I said, ignorance is no excuse. Yes, it would good to have proofs when they become available, but don't hitch your wagon to that thing alone, you'll get nowhere. While you wait or look for proofs try to educate yourself and those whom you are trying to influence.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Grayson » Thu Mar 28, 2013 1:04 pm

I appreciate the reply, but my view has been exhausted. I'm thankful for what I've had, but won't go so far to expect it of others (as I don't see it as much as I'd like to). Thus, press a method that seems to work for me.

Faith is eventually a choice we all make; depending on the truths we see and hold strong. Justice is universal. I do not hitch my wagon on that alone. I like to think of it as taking it step by step, according to my admittedly strongly opinionated views. In regards to this particular approach, I see what you may think as trivial, to matter. It dehumanizes fanatic preconceptions. Inshallah faith shall follow.

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Re: Moula Cares

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Unread post by Humsafar » Thu Mar 28, 2013 1:21 pm

Grayson wrote:I'll take Dawkins agnostic approach. Seems most rational. No debunkings needed.
Take Dawkins' approach by all means, but don't let it be your final destination. Rationality in my view is overrated. Allow your intellectual and spiritual explorations to take you beyond that.