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Greetings. This is a serious topic for Adults or over 18. Can we discuss sex, what to do before, during and after sex.

What sabaq is there for courting, foreplay, etc.

1st question are there rituals like washing, trimming for man or woman

Bohra spring wrote: ↑Fri Aug 20, 2021 7:25 pm Greetings. This is a serious topic for Adults or over 18. Can we discuss sex, what to do before, during and after sex.

What sabaq is there for courting, foreplay, etc.

1st question are there rituals like washing, trimming for man or woman

This guy has done some good work.

https://durrenajaf.com/sex-education/

There is an interesting book The Perfumed Garden

15th century Arab cultural kama sutra, it's available on Amazon

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Perfumed_Garden

The Perfumed Garden of Sensual Delight (Arabic: الروض العاطر في نزهة الخاطر‎ Al-rawḍ al-ʿāṭir fī nuzhaẗ al-ḫāṭir) is a fifteenth-century Arabic sex manual and work of erotic literature by Muhammad ibn Muhammad al-Nefzawi, also known simply as "Nefzawi".

The author praises God for having given us the pleasures of love-making. He says that God endowed women with beauty to inspire men to make love to them. He says that men have a natural weakness for the love of women. He says that he is a Muslim, that there is only one God and that Mohammed is his prophet. He says that he is the servant of God. He says that he wrote this book in Tunis for the Grand Vizir. He says that he had divided his work into different chapters to make it easier to read and understand.

Looking that there are no further comments from progressives or orthodox. Can I conclude Bohras sex lifestyle is boring, not a topc of discussionwith men or women groups ,preoccupied with other social distraction.

I asked a middle aged jamia trained person how he and his wife had sex. Any instructions or self discipline. He smiled. Said they teach verbally at jamia. Youth blush and giggle.

This was his answer

Lights off
Only when in need, sex is reproduction reason not pleasure.
No complete nudity
Quick
Ghusul
Clothes back on and go to sleep.


They have a curtain type partition between the double bed so seriously the man and woman are separate, like 2 cars parked in a shopping mall.

Many men are on porn sites most of the time.

This is END of discussion on Bohra Sex Life8 and Lies

I dont think this is true

One time i had a conversation with a jamea miyasaheb who was on extensive travel assignment, he was around 40-45 years old. I asked him with so much travel what happens to your sex life. He looked at me kinda weird and said i already have 2 kids, why do i need more sex?? I was in a state of shock for quite sometime. This is a true story whether anyone believes it or not.

they think they are holier than you, what are you supposed to hear if you ask such a question to them, obviously they will show they are above sex and greed for money.

don't know about the other part but I do know they have greed for money, everyone does.